Hi BF, I know you will get through this move, moving is always a pain in the butt. With the holidays approaching, doesn't help either.
Check around on movers, usually from what I have experienced most of them require a 2 or 3 hour move. Maybe it depends on how much you have to move or how far too. Not sure.
As far as people especially family that tell you how to live, just take it with a grain of salt, I say thanks, but I have it under control.
Take care, go easy, and go with the flow.
Hugs, Nikko