good luck Barbara, I have always had intense sibling rivalry with my older sister since we were little girls. I blame it on our parents who fueled the flames. When I called myra, this was the first time in our lives I apologized to her for hurting her and told her I loved her. I was sincere. I think I told her I needed her as a sister. I don't know if you feel that way or could use that approach. I haven't been functioning very well.
Bobby