holly i agree with others sit down talk to the hospice people. My father was on hospice, here at my home many moons ago. and at the time it was hard, not going to white wash that fact, but i also look back at it and a smile of his memory, invades my face all the time, Dad also was happier being able to be in a familiar surrounding. Feeling scared or overwhelmed is normal also, but talking to hospice should help ease this some, they are wonderful people, all of my prayers and hopes for you and yours and Grandma