That was lovely.
Thank you.
With reference to #3...is this about people, things or events?
Sometimes we really misjudge people...don't have all the facts.
Perhaps it is common to be in the dark about what goes on behind the scenes, the hardships of people or their motives.
We certainly can choose not to judge people at all or at the very least suspend judgment.
It seems like it would be a very good idea to put some space between stimulus and response.