rosie, i am so sorry to hear of your grandmother's passing.

all i can tell you about the pressure ulcer is to stay off it. depending on how deep..which i hope yours isn't...can require debriding..and packing. heal it from the inside out.

can you drink anything? straw? sheesh....hon i am so sad you are dealling with all this.

very gentle (((((((rosie)))))))

thank goodness for your boys!!