I realise that you are in the US so it will be different for me, but being in Australia, i find that I'm being offered the treatment I want at this point.
Besides reading everything written, how do you select your treatment?
If you guys dont have health insurance, can you still get treatment?
what is the treatment of choice in the US?
Can you choose what you want or are you restricted by funding/contributions etc?

sorry to a nosey cow. just wanted to know if there's a wish list out there.