gd'mornin, wow, u guys have brought tears to my eyes, they r tears of wonder at how truly we r all related, not seperate at all.
to the gal with the husband who visits the dark places, i know that place, fear, helplessness, confusion patrol it and suck u in, cover ur eyes with a viel of illusions to convince u there is no hope, no reason to get up each day.
when i lived there u could never have convinced me i would ever ever crawl out and certainly never find the light of a new day.
if i can b of any support please let me know, its a lonely, frightening place for all involved.
namaste