Tracy, It doesnt sound like your the problem but not having the support of your husband is. Do you see a counselor because if you dont you need to & immediately if you can. It can help so much. Everyone needs someone to talk to. Having a uninvolved thrid party can be eye opening. No one deserves to be controlled or to be treated like you are. You cant giveup & not just for your daughter but for yourself. I know its hard. Everyday is hard. I cant even promise you that its gets easier because you may always have days that feel harder than others. But some things just make it worth it. Of course our children our one of the main reasons. But we have to believe we have things we have been left here to do. We may not figure them out but it helps on those bad days. If you still love your husband maybe write him a letter telling him so & all the reasons you still love him. Maybe that will open a door to his heart and start some nice communication between you. Tell him how much you need him. Maybe he is acting out because he is scared. Men do strange things when things are out of their control. He cant fix you so is angry & taking it out on you. Its possible. If this is the way he has always been I wouldnt bother. I would find a way out for me & my daughter because now he has more control over of you than ever. Take care & whatever you do dont give up. You have friends who care what happens to you.
Hugs, Denny