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Originally Posted by dennyfan
Tracy, It doesnt sound like your the problem but not having the support of your husband is. Do you see a counselor because if you dont you need to & immediately if you can. It can help so much. Everyone needs someone to talk to. Having a uninvolved thrid party can be eye opening. No one deserves to be controlled or to be treated like you are. You cant giveup & not just for your daughter but for yourself. I know its hard. Everyday is hard. I cant even promise you that its gets easier because you may always have days that feel harder than others. But some things just make it worth it. Of course our children our one of the main reasons. But we have to believe we have things we have been left here to do. We may not figure them out but it helps on those bad days.
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ITA.
Maybe you could try and figure out why your meds cost $800? What kind of health care plan do you have? Maybe you could change that resulting in less financial pressure. Do you have any control over that?
Has your husband forgotten the "for better or worse" part and the fact that you are a family, and that you are in this together, not apart? It's not a me and you thing, it's a marriage. There needs to be a bond higher than what you are both "contributing" to the marriage. That's supposed to be what a marriage is. Besides, you are not responsible for your illness. I'd remind him of that. The least you can expect is tender loving "care", not this CRAP.