I cannot find out online how my in-laws would get me disqualified as beneficiary of my ex's thrift plan. If the DuPont guy was telling the truth today when he said my ex changed beneficiaries after our divorce my in-laws went through a lot to get it. It would be much easier for one of them to have gotten the money as a beneficiary instead of all of them signing affidavits that they are relatives. If my ex had made one of his family members beneficiary that one person could have divided the money. Instead, all the nephews and nieces had to sign affidavits which I read is cumbersome. The executor also had to prove the passing of the dead relatives. They went through a lot of trouble if in fact one of them was the beneficiary. Who else would my ex make the beneficiary if he took me off? If he made a will like they said he did leaving them his estate why would he not make one of them the beneficiary of his thrift plan?

befuddled2