i appreciate your tenacity in what you are going through, Barbara. i honestly don't know if i would have the follow through and steadfastness you are showing.

things oughtta be fair and square however.

so, even though i do agree with the others about moving on - theoretically ... emotionally ... and certainly if you cannot resolve this thing, if there is unfair play here and you've been "gipped" and you are in need the of the money, well. i can understand your wanting to leave no corners unsearched, before doing the moving on thing.

good luck and

~ waves ~
p.s. what happened with the marital home? is that yours now or he change something with that too?