Mari,

My in-laws know just like I do that it's not good for the house to be vacant but they must not care. I have thought about recently seeing if they would agree to have it rented until it is sold if it gets to that point.

All my in-laws have nice big homes in nice neighborhoods. They have always wanted my ex's husband's money even when he was alive. When I was still married to him I had to cut my own hair because I couldn't afford a haircut. But yet my in-laws always got their pedicures, manicures, housekeepers, and hair done every week. What my in-laws had wasn't enough cause they were always after my husband's money for other luxeries that they were not use to having all the time.

barbara