Thank You,
Moose, and Gardengrl,
For your kind and thoughtful replies!

I'm winding down a bit, I know that there is only so much I can do.
There's NOBODY who can do what the court is demanding, let alone someone as disabled as myself.
My brain just "spins out" when it gets flooded, or flustered, and my wife knows this.
One of her old sayings was "I can control you with your pain / brain".
She's a sweetheart.

The kindness, and thoughts and ideas are priceless!
I hope for more!

Love to all,
Pete
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