Hi,
I understand completely what you are saying about tough love. I grew up with an alcholic father who died at 48 from it.
I think I have been every route with him then.
I am an only child, so it makes it difficult. I can change the circumstances as to where she lives if she agree's, but I cannot change her. I learned that a long time ago.
I only have medical power of attorney if she is unable to speak for herself.
I am going to try everything in my power.
There is alcohol in the house, and if I don't get it, she will try to drive and get it herself, which she can't do. Then I have to live in hell for not getting it for her. It's not an easy road that I am on. I feel like I am reliving the past. I already suffer from PSTD from my assault and now this reminds me of my father.
I have been to Al-Anon and AA meetings with her in the past. She is 73 and is set in her ways. Getting her around and outdoors is a major ordeal with her walker and all.
I guess today will tell. I still haven't heard back from the hospital.

Thanks for the advice and understanding.

Hugs, Nikko