Hello and Welcome to NeuroTalk. I really feel for you and your family. I can't imagine how very hard this has been on you. I'm glad Idealist posted; he's a valued and wise member and by his opening up w/his own experience; you know thar your'e not alone in your troubles.

Please know that we are glad you found us and hope your DS can see the way to accept the help he needs.

Take care and keep us posted.