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Old 12-15-2006, 05:06 PM
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Originally Posted by befuddled2 View Post
I should have expressed myself to her from the beginning with the disappointments so the disappointments would not have built up in me to be so cold last night in my email to her. This has had me feeling rather down today.
Dear Befuddled,
You are going through many changes right now. If you sent out a cold or slightly angry email, don't worry. (Maybe she needed to hear it anyway.)

Being angry is a good healthy honest emotion.
The same with being agressive. Maybe you were standing up for yourself and, again, you are not used to doing so.

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