hi Becky I take my DW with me to all my appointments but make sure you talk things through with him first ( no surprises ) as to what you want to add , to the consultation with tbi we notice some things ourselves but it is true that many things we don,t depending on the person , it is standard fair to be given antidepressants, but they did not help me, mood swings were exaggerated and cognitive issues got worse , its a strange thing with brain injury that we can plateau stop ,or regress as well progress, stress can be a factor ,I feel as the brain gets over loaded and shuts down or slows up, lifes knock don,t go away as we all know, but antidepressants may work for him , or logging on to NT an expressing his own concerns may help ???