Success to me after I'm gone from this world that something I've done while still here goes on for the good. To me that may be me being a good role model or on a more personal level if I have an estate leaving it for a fund to help abused women. I guess for me personally, success is always striving towards my goals and once I acheive them strive towards more goals. Sucess is never giving up.

And yes, I do sometimes find myself challenging the norm. Sometimes it gives me great grief to do so though.