I have a wonderful understanding family, they are great and supportive.

I still get the "how are you" (from friends etc) I say "not bad", and they reply "oh but you're looking so well"
I always think oh well if I'm looking well I must be musnt I!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Never mind it took 5 minutes to put my shoes on to come out.
its hard, and doesn't get any easier, but I've learnt to deal with it in my own way.