your similar to me - im a single parent with 3 kids - i have absolutely no support from my family - i had decompression surgery last year and i have had so many problems since - the effect it had on my family was huge - i do think my kids have been really affected by what happened - if id been told what was really in store for me i never would have had the surgery as it really has affected how i can tek care of mykids - they are not really small but they are still very young.

how old are your children? i would guess that if they are young you may have some difficulties caring for them - i know someone who is in that situation. i guess if you have support from family that may help - but id ask as many questions as you possible can before making any decisions.
sorry - i do admit to being very negative about this condition - but i have myreasons - but i know everyone is different in how it affects them so i do know only you will know if you can have the surgery

good luck