Thanks everyone, I know it's going to get harder & all I can do is promise myself to do the best I can. Even though we yelled at each other...& I mean Yelled...it seemed to set some NEW boundries?

She now knows my limitations & has been staying away from pushing my buttons...Hopefully she is NOT frightened of me...that would be very sad..

But it has been easier since.....it seems she has finally realized that drinking water ALL night results in ME cleaning carpets ALL day, which means I am grouchy, hurting, & don't go for drives....

But then there are days when she see's me in all my braces, limping around, and asks why? She just does not remember the accident at times??? Very wierd...

I thought once the memories went away, they were gone for good? I swear she has SELECTIVE memory! lol