Hi there, Greg/Graig! Welcome to the community. Have you checked out the RSD forum yet? Here's the link:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum21.html
Looking forward to hearing more from you, and perhaps eventually your wife will feel comfortable here, too. Hey, I know, she can stand behind you and dictate...that's what we women like to do anyway.
You'll find lots of support here, and pretty soon we'll be saying "y'all" and "I 'bout fell out" and "do what?" like my brother in NC.