Hello dear all,

Im having a bad night here...

Im wondering... (and have always done), do you know, or, do you underastand why things happen ??
I mean, good and bad things... why, why, why !? of course the bad ones are even harder to understand for me....

Like, why does God let us feel bad ? sick ??

Dont you feel that sometimes, things happen no matter what ? like, accidents for example... I mean, why ?

How do you cope with that ? How can you forgive yourself or God, or the person who hurt you ???

Like, why do someone dies during a surgery ??

I just... what do he have to learn from pain ??? Do we really have to learn something or things just happen but without a reason ??

Does everything happen for a reason ? what can we do to uderstand or find the reason for that thing that happened ??

Help me please. If you have a philosophy or religion that helps you understad all this, please share with me... I have always wondered, and I have always thought that if you manage to understand this, you can live happier...

Thanks in advance.