BJ

I believe if its meant for you to do it you would do it! Without a qualm,
without much thought. YOu are a much different person than when
I came in.

I also believe that if you could do just a small amount of this it might
be a good thing. But also you might be able to give her a phrase
of the nursery rhyme or another to explain why your not ready yet.

And she isn't letting go yet. You are in charge of your growth, thats
how I think of this.

Donna