Dear BJ,
I don't think that your tdoc said something on purpose to make you shiver.
She was probably trying to help.

But it seems that you have a lot of stuff hanging from the very end of the session. Does that happen often? -- that at the very end you get to stuff that bothers you the whole week?

Ask her to be more careful about that if it bothers you.

I like it when my tdoc kind of ends the session a few minutes early and then does a recap -- she summarizes what we have been over and gives me a chance to ask a question or reaffirm what we did.
Then I leave feeling complete for the moment.

But everyone has their own techniques and their own preferences.

M.