I'm sorry for all this.
gosh i didn't realize she was taking you to court. i have to wonder how she intends to "prove" excessive noise if you weren't making any. i hadn't realized her complaint about it meant court.
i dearly hope the thing with your in-laws and the deed v.s. divorce agreement gets resolved in favor of the deed. i am not sure which would count. probably the document dated last, but i don't know the laws about deed changeover. so it's possible that if part of the divorce papers included the deed changeover and it was not done... that it may stand. this is my hope for you.
basically i want to see you out of that complex and away from that horrid woman, YESTERDAY!!!
~ waves ~