I’ve been watching people I know who are both independent and who have a good sense of self esteem (at least, in my estimation they do). And I’ve noticed something, with even the most fiercely independent person I know. If they need help doing something, they don’t hesitate to ask.

It’s really opened my eyes to how much I struggle to do things by myself that could go so much faster and easier if I could only ask for help.

I understand totally about canceling your pdoc appointment Mari. My pdoc scares me more than my tdoc. I have to be really clear and alert when I go in there. I'm terrified of her.