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Originally Posted by BJ
I’ve been watching people I know who are both independent and who have a good sense of self esteem (at least, in my estimation they do). And I’ve noticed something, with even the most fiercely independent person I know. If they need help doing something, they don’t hesitate to ask.
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BJ,
Have you ever noticed that most people are flattered when you ask them for help?
They like feeling like feeling helpful and important -- lots of people -- not everyone.
But yes, I agree with your statement that strong people can ask for help. It is another one of those things that we learn to do -- ask for help.
M.