I am sorry I know how bad doctor apts are in addition to being in pain. From the million docs I have seen what I feel is key and hard is to have open communication and a game plan with options. I know it can be hard to start over but if I were you since you are not happy I would for sure go for another opinion. This doctor does not sound like he has a lot of knowledge with what is going on with you and I wonder if that is why he questioned. Sometimes I think if a doc does not know instead of saying that he turns it around on the patient. Hang in there and I hope you feel better. On a side note I would encourage you to keep up with your bone density tests. I had osteopenia to start and now have osteoporosis.