I sawa tv show, a totally paralyzed woman wanted a child, had one, could not move any at all. She had a husband, a home,enough money to hire full time nanny, she loved that baby, it'd be brought to her, it'd, she'd smile lovingly on it. But who will the child interact with when Dad's not home?
The nanny but will she be staying 20 or so years? I think I love my kids too much to have ever done that from the start. MS at 46 was bad enough.