Sorry, I haven't replied (rude!) Thanks for the help. I'm still a confused mess but I'm guessing I will be for a long time! Anyway, I was referred to as "he" which I'm not. Bixbite is a red emerald and I know more about rocks than anyone should know. I really am not sure about going to another doctor, my old one made me feel like I was in a business meeting and looked at me like I was crazy.
Hope everyone has a happy Memorial Day!