Hey Smoke,
Welcome, to the site. There are a lot of good people on here with helpful information.
When it comes to others not understanding it's hard. They only need to go to RSDS.org to unerstand the condition is real. You can tell by looking at some people that something is wrong with RSD that's not always the case. I have it full body with organs involved. When I'm sitting I look normal. There are some people that will never understand no matter how much information you give them. Don't worry about what others think about how you feel. Don't allow others opinions to have a negative impact on you. Use your energy and strength to win the battle against RSD itself. I like Pete's wording the insensative people are a "negative zero".
In addition to the medications I take. I see a chiroprator 3 times a week (he is an activator doctor no hands). Workout in the water. You are weightless in the water and the pain is soooo much better.
Sorry you need us but glad you found us.
Take care,
Sherrie