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Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 1,365
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2008
Posts: 1,365
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Guilt: that useless emotion
My 89 year old year, dementia ridden Grandma passed away a couple of days ago. It was best for her and the family that it wasn't prolonged.
I feel guilty because I can't be at her service tomorrow. I'm physically not up for the 1000 mile trip to PA.
Worst of all, I realized that I have her wedding ring that I am positive that she would've wanted to be buried with. During the confusion after my mom's death last year my Dad gave my sister and me my mom's jewelry.
Somehow I ended up with my Gram's ring because my mom had been keeping it because of Gram's dementia.
My Aunt was trying to find it a few months ago when I figured out that the extra gold band in mom's stuff was the missing band. I planned on having my son take it with him to PA when he visits next month. My Dad didn't want me to mail it. Now I wish I had.
I know that my Aunt is probably torn up about this, I don't want to call her right now because it will just upset her more.
I understand, logically, this isn't my fault. Guilt sucks. I feel like it's something I should have thought of soon enough to overnight mail it.
I just needed to say this out loud, so to speak.
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Multiple Sclerosis-Dx May 2007
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