Hi, thank you so much for your replies. My husband tackled both his daughter and son in law and knew he was taking the risk of her not talking to him again. Well - that has basically happened and they have taken jobs about 700 miles away. Total denial and unfortunuately she will be working in a position where she will have ready access to these and other drugs. Altogether too eduacated and sneaky. Her husband's idea is wait until she crashes, we are scared that she won't find her way back when it happens. I spoke to the GP about her, but of course she won't be going back to him. I feel incredibly helpless and so sad for my husband ( I am the step mum) Her sister who is a doctor is going to try to talk to her - which will not be easy with 2 children under 15 months - happy families! My 95 year old mother inlaw has just had a severe stroke, so things not so good at the moment.

Thanks again, Lynlee