Jude is making me smile.
I didn't know moles could do that. Wow.
I have a lot of sebaceous keritosis... I'm not spelling well today... but those little raised brown spots that doctors say are totally all right. (Only a few years ago there was a news prograom on how if you had really a lot of them, then sometimes it could be a sign that cancer would follow. I have masses of them. They were reducing in number after I started having B12 replacement, but then recently I noticed that there are a lot... and I wonder if maybe they are from how much Ibuprofen I was taking over a couple of years when I had the tetanus and thereafter when the nerve damage was painful extremely.)
It's true, you could be very sympathetic to your sister. So maybe you should tell your sister good things and then if she is very sympathetic with you... that will turn things around.
I always take melatonin, but sometimes if there is a lot of stress I have to take a second one. I take the smallest dose, ordinarily. I forget what that is.