Talk about not meaning to be mean but stupid anywa. Don't just happen to us MS people. DS had 2 friends over, one says to kid of divorced parents, the Mom a really bad alcoholic who's been arrested, in rehabs, taken away in ambulances incoherent and screaming , kid says (Like a 17 YEAR OLD WOULD SAY) " Your Mom is really crazy, huh?" That's one of those things you can say about your own. family member. no body else can. That Mom's boy's face fell. "All moms are crazy" I said to fill the silence and to illustrate my point chased my own son in my wheelchair. Sometimes I don't know whose pain is greatest.