It sounds like you really jumped through hoops and then some... what more could you do? (nothing i can see.) You were optimistic and protective and nurturing and reached out a helping hand and risked your neck doing it.

I'm so sorry the "payback" was so negative. It is not your fault. Donna made good points. I am confident you and your wife can make it through this difficult time - it is appreciable that both of you have ample reason to be furious and hurt and a bunch of other things. I'm sorry your wife cannot be of support right now. I remember when you posted in the past of great harmony between the two of you, and i hope soon that can be restored.

I'm on your side. I wish you only the best.

thanks for sharing and keep talking to us here.

~ waves ~