I hear ya! I'm doing the menopause dance, too. Can't happen soon enough for me!

Usually I'm too warm versus too cool.....even in the winter. And I can't stand to be too warm when I'm trying to sleep. Since I'm the only one in my bed (besides the cats but they don't get a vote in this) I can regulate the ceiling fan and blankets to my liking. My DH used to always be warm, too. He had to have the fan running year round and the A/C set on about 68 during the summer....so I was accustomed to the house being cool. Maybe that's why I'm warm when others are comfortable.