Thanks every one!!! It helps to say it to people who understand and don't think I've grown three heads lol.
I'm so glad the DD is 7 and takes care of herself in the shower now. I used to have to go every other day with her I couldn't do both and every thing else that needed doing.
It's getting hotter in CT which means every day showering will soon be a necessity.. but what are you going to do
I'm worried about the electric bill this summer if I don't find a job soon. I have worked in a grocery store for years so always had AC to get me through

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Oh well this to shall pass.