It's not "just the crap"

Emotional abuse hurts just as much as physical abuse.

I found couseling to be really helpful. It did not fix the problems in my marriage.....sort of the opposite, but at least now I know that he didn't change drastically after we married. He was never the man I thought he was. That makes me sad, but not as sad as I was when I thought if I could just do something differently, it would go back to how it used to be.

Being sick or in pain shows you who you can really depend on when the chips are down. Some spouses just don't make the cut