((((((Abbie)))))),
I wish you'd re-think that decision to leave.
You know -- all of us who come here -- come looking for help. BUT, we respond because we WANT TO HELP.
Sometimes, when the facial expression that goes along with the words isn't there, the words get misunderstood.
Please, Abbie, stay with us. We're all only trying to help -- each in our own way.
BIG HUGS.
Barb