Actually, J. is my first initial, and Jaye is my assumed screen name, although most of my friends from here use 'Jaye' when we meet in person, simply because they're used to it. I don't use my real name on this forum because I like an extra layer of privacy. Confused yet? I re-assumed my maiden name after my first marriage broke up, but left my daughter's name the same as her father's. When I married my true husband I kept my maiden name, and his daughters kept his name, so that among the six of us there were three last names when they were growing up. Two of them have now taken their husbands' names but kept their maiden names as their middle names, so now when we get together we have four last names plus two last names used as middle names.

LOL,

Jaye