So true, I've started to begin the talking when talking to friends. the reason behind this is if I don't get my friends involved in talking about themselves at the beginning, I end up complaining. So, I start by asking about them, then by the time they finish complaining, commenting, etc, I can just say I'm fine and end the conversation. I hate it when the first thing out of everyones mouth is how are you today? feeling better then yesterday. Believe me, If I felt better then yesterday that would be the first thing i would tell them. That way, when I really really feel bad I don't mind complaining, because I haven't been doing it. I know it may not be fair to my friends and family, but I get tired of being everyones main concern.

Hugs
Mary