I had my thymectomy in May 1991 and I had a 3 month old son and 9 year old son so I know what you mean about getting things together. They have come a long way since 1991 so I am sure your surgery will go very well just remember that a folded up sheet or very firm pillow will be your best friend for a while after the surgery {you will be holding it close to your chest} Keep smiling