Hi Erin, sorry you are having troubles with your sister, I really feel for you.
And for everyone else to.

I am so blessed, I have a wonderful sister, who is 4 years older than me. She is always so concerned about how I am going, and if she can do anything for me. If I need to go to Perth for specialist appointments, she will take "crisis leave" just to take me.

I know just how lucky I am in having a caring family, and really do appreciate them all.