Isn't there a copy of the pre nup somewhere? the atty that helped write it up?
doctors reports of you dx & why you take meds?

That atty is a jerk for not showing!
Whpo k knows maybe she bribed him to not show?? or offered a kickback if she wins.

something isn't right here and they are taking advantage of it!
get a real good lawyer and find out what can be done to fix this.