Awwwww Sally, I'm so sorry you're feeling down in the dumps. It's really the pits when it looks like everything in life is wrong. That's why in another thread I had said, if anybody says 'it could be worse', I was going to smack 'em!!!! Just don't want to hear it now please, it's worse enough for you!! Hopefully the kiddos will bounce back soon and you and DD can share a big hug. Here's one from me ((((((Sally)))))). Feel better soon!!!!