Wow I am so sorry. Divorce is stressful I have heard from my family members and on top of the current health you have to face I can't even imagine. Do you have family/friends to help you fight this battle? I would reach out in real time as much as you can. Is there a way you can get another lawyer. I too would go to the office and wait or call every hour if you are not up to it. Then I would file a complaint cause that is unacceptable. I am so confused but if her name is not on the house then why can she get it? Your health conditions really should have nothing to do with this. They are seperate problems. Actually I feel with your health problems you should be given more since unable to work etc often. She sounds like she is healthy physically. Well you are in my thoughts and I hope things look up soon