Options, and hope!! I don't know why they seem to flit away for some of us. I don't know why we box ourselves in. And it seems selfish, but, it's not. It gets confusing. Reaching out is the hardest, and most important part of it all, I think. If only people can see even that much as an option. That is that when they can't see an option, maybe someone else can help them to see those options, and give them hope.