UI did not read your first post do will just say:

1. Nappy - she has mad skills, but without drive and big kahunas that's often not enough.

2. Loving a lesser paying job beats a higher paying job you don't like love. Money is just paper and ink. Plus you do it much better. At least LIKE it.

3. Think about this. Use all your resources. Listen.

Maybe I was just a Special Ed. teacher of Emotionally Disturbed kids, but we had great years. I was where I belonged.